Don’t you hate arguing with your spouse? Most of us do, but realistically we know we aren’t always going to agree on everything. When we do disagree, we have to take care to debate issues fairly. We often justify our arguments by telling ourselves that we are simply reaffirming something that is important to us. There’s nothing wrong with that, but there is the danger of using the old “never let it die” tactic, wherein we continue to rehash things from the past. This is a form of manipulation. While this doesn’t mean we cannot discuss past problems that have … Continue reading →