What the Heck is Speed Dating?

The first time I heard of speed dating was when I saw the movie, “Hitch.” Will Smith goes after the girl who stole his heart, and interrupts her mid “date” to tell her how he feels about her. You may have heard of this trend before, but some of us old married ladies were unaware of this phenomenon. I thought it was rather intriguing. The idea is to gather lots of singles together to mingle, and then to have them engage each other in one on one conversation for a specified amount of time. Then, when the time limit expires, … Continue reading

Dating: Listen to that Little Voice

We all have a little voice inside that tells us things, usually things we don’t want to hear. When it comes to dating pay attention! That voice is trying to tell you that the guy you think is just too hot is not the right guy for you. On the other hand, it might be telling you men that the ultra-sweet girl you are getting ready to ask out for the second time is not quite as sweet as she seems. People can manage to be on their best behavior during a quick meeting to make plans or even during … Continue reading

Five Tips for the First Date

A first date is exciting, but it can also be a little nerve-wracking. This is especially true if you do not know much about the other person. These tips will help you feel more confident and secure. Double Date There is nothing wrong with going on a double date. Doing so serves a couple of purposes. Not only will you feel better having familiar faces along, but friends can also help keep the conversation going. More importantly, you’ll feel and be safer with other people along. Take a Number Instead of giving out your home number, take your prospective date’s … Continue reading

The First Date

If you want to spice up a first date, take a little time to think it through. A three-hour date with a movie that lasts two and half-hours is not a good way to get acquainted. Then again, you don’t want to be stuck staring at each other without a topic of conversation. A daytime meeting takes the heat off and if you throw in lunch or coffee, it can definitely help alleviate the pressure that a first date always seems accompanied by. Always thank your date, because manners are forever in style. Be positive throughout the date, nothing turns … Continue reading