When Parents Succeed

When death is knocking at your door, and you’re forced to review your life, what will you consider your single most important success? I know that I will be able to embrace dying much more, provided my daughter has grown up to be a loving, caring, selfless individual. Society is quick to point its collective finger at parents whose children turn into murderers, rapists and thieves, and in some cases, lack of parental supervision is to blame for children who grow up to be criminals. But what about all the kids, who from a very young age, show signs of … Continue reading

Remembering to Reward Good Behavior

As a parent it is easy to focus on the negative behaviors that our children exhibit, making sure that proper consequences are enforced when rules are broken. It is harder to recognize and appreciate the positive behaviors that our children show. As parents we even less often reward good behavior. As a teacher I was taught that for every negative comment you should make at least two positive comments. So the number of positives to negatives is two to one. As a parent I find myself focusing on the behavior that I don’t want my children to be doing more … Continue reading