Who Really Wants to be Ignored?

Yesterday, I wrote here in the Single Parents blog wondering how we could really blame our children for wanting to have our attention. As I wrote, I realized that the “dark shadow” of attention-seeking behavior on the part of our kids is how it can affect them when they feel ignored. After all, who really wants to be ignored and is there anything worse than feeling invisible and unimportant? We may not be intentionally ignoring our child or children—life can get hectic and busy and we might be so wrapped up in our own worries that we do not even … Continue reading

Dealing with Being Ignored

Being snubbed by our children or ignored in a general way is never pleasant. For some of us parents, it can be the thing that really triggers us. Surely, being ignored isn’t “owned” by single parents, but without another adult in the house to balance things out, being ignored by our kids can be aggravating at the least, and make things uncomfortable and stressful as well. In my own experience, being ignored by my kids for whatever reason can have a little bit of both blessing and aggravation in it. If they are ignoring me when I am trying to … Continue reading