In the early part of the 20th century there was a man named Edward Lee Thorndike and he is considered one of the fathers of learning theory in psychology. One of his theories, the Law of Readiness is what I want to talk about today. Our relationships, whether they are dating, engagements, marriage or simply friendships and family, go through stages. Once upon a time, I was involved with a gentleman who was crazy for me and he was full of plans for marriage and a future. I wasn’t interested in marriage or a future and the more he talked … Continue reading →