No One Likes a Martyr
Martyrdom and single parenthood do not have to go hand in hand or be interchangeable. I know it can be really tough NOT to feel like a martyr–someone who is giving it up, doing it all, and who is downtrodden and overworked–but no one likes a martyr and it isn’t particularly healthy for us anyway… Think of how YOU feel when you are around someone who is acting like a martyr. It tends to make us feel angry, aggravated, annoyed, and guilty. It is just no fun to be around someone who is doing the “poor me” act. Even if … Continue reading