It is important to offer constructive criticism instead of putting your spouse on the defensive. No one likes to hear about their faults or areas in which they need to improve, so voicing such issues has to be done with care and respect. Experts suggest “sandwiching” a complaint between two positive statements. Build your spouse up with a complement, suggest the area that needs improvement, and make another positive statement. For example, “I appreciate the fact that you are so involved with the kids, but it would really be great if you played with them earlier in the day, instead … Continue reading →