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Boundaries 101 For Older Kids (and Their Parents)

I tend to write about my personal “boundary” philosophies when it comes to parenting now and again. The reality is that I find this subject comes up again and again when I am talking with friends. They may not realize that their “problem” with their kids is really about setting boundaries—but it often is. And, it doesn’t stop when kids grow up and move out—in fact I have found with my friends with older kids (in their 20’s and 30’s)—the boundary issues can be even stronger and more of a struggle! As usual, I want to clarify that I am … Continue reading →

Attaching from Far Away – Older Children

Yesterday, I posted a blog on how to begin to facilitate attachment with adopted babies and toddlers before they come home. Today, I want to talk about doing the same with older children. One of the benefits of adopting an older child is that your older child will likely be aware that they are being adopted. Older children have the chance to prepare emotionally for the changes that are about to happen. It is important that you take advantage of this and do everything you can to help prepare your child. Though it may be limited, you should be able … Continue reading →