The Blessing of Inconveniences

It was a typical morning of rushing to get out the door and of course, running late; thanks to one child in particular who I suspect gets a kick out of this.  Then it’s a 20 minute drive to school, fighting my way through traffic. My plan when I walk in the door is to eat breakfast, get in the shower and start on the heavy workload I have for the day.  No time to waste. But then I receive a text from my daughter.  She forgot her swimming suit.  My immediate thought is something along the lines of, “Oh … Continue reading

Dealing With a Traumatic Event

One of the ongoing discussions taking place since the tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary is how the survivors are going to cope.  Fearful children who are afraid to return to school, some asking if there are anymore “bad guys.”  Or having to explain to them why their teacher or friends won’t be returning. Then there are the horrific images that some of these children witnessed.  The sound of gunfire, hiding in closets and so much more than we can probably only imagine. I wish I had answers as to how a parent can help a child cope after a tragedy.  … Continue reading

The Power of Comfort Food

On Friday, when my children arrived home, safely, it was all that I could do to not to gather them all up and never let them go. After recent events, I know I am not the only parent out there that felt that way. We’ve all been shaken up. Anyone who has ever loved a child, a sister or a friend has had to face this harsh new reality. There was no way, that night, that I was going to deny my children most anything. It is a good thing that no one asked for a pony. Instead, they asked … Continue reading