Build a lasting and healthy marriage; means learn to forgive and to seek forgiveness when necessary. It doesn’t mean excusing bad behavior or hurtful words or actions, but it does mean not allowing those things to create a wedge in our relationships. Giving forgiveness is really as much about you as it is about the person in the wrong. It’s not about giving the other person a free pass, it’s about allowing yourself to heal. By forgiving your spouse you can let go of hurt, anger, and even possible thoughts of seeking revenge. Getting back at your spouse really won’t … Continue reading →