In all the books and blogs and magazines you’ll read, and in the many discussions you’ll have with other people about marriage, you’ll find that a lot of emphasis is given to being honest. Usually, it refers to being open and honest with your spouse and working to develop good communication habits. However, one cannot learn to be honest with others until he or she can be honest with him or herself. The problem is that being honest with ourselves can be difficult. It requires the ability to admit when we are wrong or when we behave selfishly. It requires … Continue reading →