Despite the fact that most of us have felt emotional pain during our lives, we often have little idea what to say to others who are in desperate need of words of solace. Unfortunately, people often say things that can actually make the situation worse. Sadly, these life skills are not taught in school, so the following is a quick course entitled “What not to say to the sad and grieving.” 1. Stillborn babies It’s natural for you as a friend to want to ease the pain of your grieving friend who has just given birth to a stillborn child … Continue reading →