Ts for Two

After a few diversions, I am back to my alphabetical blog on marriage. Several things stand out to me that should be incorporated into any marriage. True The first one is true, that means true to your marriage vows and your spouse not only in your actions but your thought life as well. All our actions result from what we think about. So no, it’s not okay to be thinking and day dreaming about the new guy or woman at work or that you see somewhere else. Think about and daydream about your spouse instead. Trustworthy This goes along with … Continue reading

Love is Not a Feeling

If you asked someone what love was, what kind of a response would you get? Answers would probably vary widely, but many people would say that love is somehow related to a feeling. When you fell in love with your spouse you likely felt a strong emotional attachment to him. You thought about him constantly or felt a surge of excitement when you were about to see him after a long separation. Are these wonderful feelings that our culture is so infatuated with the same thing as love? Undoubtedly, love can be related to feelings of emotional connection or need. … Continue reading