The Pros and Cons of Getting Married Later

Yesterday we looked at the problems that are encountered with young marriages. Today we will look at older marriages. There can be many pluses in getting married later but are there any pitfalls in later marriages? Advantages The couple getting married has had time to establish their careers first or to travel. Presumably if they have been working longer and moving up in their careers, this will also mean they will have more of a bank balance behind them, though this is not always the case. Some people earn a good income but spend it as fast as they earn … Continue reading

I’m a Workaholic

There are a number of challenges that are waiting to confront you when you get married – challenges that you weren’t likely expecting. When you marry a workaholic, you may find yourself becoming a widow or widower to your spouse’s job and responsibilities. In a society where laziness seems to be the catch phrase, a workaholic can’t be that bad can they? Speaking From Experience Let me speak from experience here and stand up and admit it, my name is Heather Long and I’m a workaholic. I get so caught up in my work sometimes that I get up early … Continue reading

The Balancing Act At Work

I recently read a quote while surfing the Internet: “There is not enough time to do all the nothing we want to do.” When I read that, I sat back in my chair and started laughing. And the more I thought about it, the more I realized how incredibly true it was. I was recently promoted at my day job, and the ensuing stress has just about sent me over the edge several times. Before the promotion, I worked 9-5 Monday through Friday, with an hour lunch break. Yes, I worked the wonderful 9-5, and I was in heaven! I … Continue reading