In my previous article, I began discussing the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens as described by Sean Covey.
The teenage years can be difficult for students, teachers, and parents. It is important that teachers and parents work together to create a safe and positive environment for children.
As with adults, it is important for teens to learn what things in life are more important and should be put first. Students must learn that academics, health, and true friends are more valuable in life than popularity, clothing, and material items. Many adults have a hard time learning this concept. The earlier a teen can learn to prioritize the more successful he/she will be in later years.
Another idea suggested by Covey is that teens need to learn that in addition to themselves, they can be proud of others. They do not always have to come out on top. Instead of jealousy, teens should learn that it is okay to be happy for the accomplishments of other people.
Covey adds another great concept by stating that teen students should listen first then communicate. Listening is one of the hardest things that a person must learn to do. It is much more desirable to be heard by others rather than to listen to the ideas of others.
Teachers and parents should also strive to teach teens to work together and appreciate the ideas and thoughts of others. Teens should be open-minded. In many cases they feel that their way is the only way. Helping teens move into an idea that two minds are better than one can help in many life tasks.
The last habit introduced by Covey is that teen students should learn not to get stuck in ruts or life habits. They need to continue to grow and learn and strengthen their personal life skills.
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