The topic of the family bed, or co-sleeping, is one that typically sparks deep opinions. Many families are either for co-sleeping or against it, and few are on the fence about the idea. In the next three installments, I’ll attempt to debunk the myths, give the facts to you straight, and hopefully, allow you to make the best decision for your family.
Yay vs. Nay
What the Supporters Say:
Supporters of co-sleeping feel that babies and young children sleeping in bed with their parents is a natural process that leaves both parent and child feeling safe and loved. The starting time at which these parents start co-sleeping varies from one household to the next, but many begin the process as soon as their baby is brought home from the hospital. The process does not have a standard time limit, and it is often practiced until both the parents and the children are comfortable with the child making the transition to his or her own bed.
What the Critics Say:
Critics of co-sleeping cite an increased number of SIDS-related deaths to the practice and argue that it is not safe to sleep with your child in your bed. They feel that the best place for a child to sleep is in his or her own crib. They state that a child should sleep in his or her own bed (or bassinet) from the day of their homecoming.
Who is Correct?
That’s a tricky question, and one that may or may not have a correct answer. If you survey a group of doctors, you’ll hear answers all over the board. If you are a supporter of co-sleeping, you’ll no doubt find many professionals to back up your theories. Likewise, if you believe co-sleeping is wrong, you can find a multitude of doctors who will agree with you.
What it boils down to is this – the debate over co-sleeping has more to do with the dangers associated with SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome) and accidental infant death than it does with the actual practice of sleeping with your child. Everyone wants what is best for the baby, but no one seems to be able to agree upon exactly what that is! I hope you’ll keep reading as I attempt to explain SIDS in Part 2. In the meantime, I’d love to hear your opinions, fears, thoughts, etc.