As the holidays get closer many people get prepared to travel to visit family for the holidays. As a single parent sometimes just getting everyone out the door on time in the morning is a challenge so traveling requires a bit of planning.
First, if you are flying try to fly on less busy days and times. The flight will be much easier if your little one has some room to spread out. If you are going to be driving I always found it easier to plan most of my driving around nap times. It’s boring to sit in a car seat for hours so make sure you allow plenty of time for rest stops so the kids can get out and stretch their legs. Pack a cooler with drinks and sandwiches to save some money on the road and let one of your rest stops be a little picnic. Play tag for a few minutes to let the kid’s burn off some of that energy.
Allow yourself plenty of time to pack; you don’t want to forget anything. If you have little ones that use sippy cups and a potty chair, don’t forget those as well. Being in a strange place is an adjustment for children, make sure they have some familiar things. If your child is on medication, make sure you have enough for the trip, the same goes for special dietary restrictions. It’s easier to take what you need than to get there and find you can’t get the food your child is used to.
When packing allow for weather fluctuations. It may be warm in California but you could still need a sweater or a warm sleeper for your little one. Take their favorite blanket and stuffed animal as well, it will help to have some of the comforts of home.
For long car rides make cd’s of the kid’s favorite songs or buy some children’s books on tape. You may get tired of hearing the same story over and over but your child won’t.
Most importantly make sure you stay hydrated and alert. It’s easy to forget the things mom needs when you are packing for the kids but as the driver, your needs are very important. Make your schedule flexible, if you see a sign for something interesting, make a detour and let the kids get out and explore. A happy child means an easier car ride and that’s really what it’s all about.