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Watch What You Say

The first time I realized that I need to be careful about what I say in front of my kids was when my two year old said the word, crap. For me, it was like she said a swear word since that is about the worst word that I say. But, in reality, as parents, we should always be watching what we say in front of them.

Especially now that my daughter is older, she is not only internalizing words I say, but complete ideas, thoughts, and overall feelings. Several months ago, my son was following his big sis around like little brothers do, and I guess he was bugging her. So, she turned to him and said, “I can’t play with you right now! I’m really busy. I have a lot of stuff to do!” Yikes. That felt like a bad Mommy moment. How many times have I said that to her? Probably more than I want to admit.

On the flip side, our children can also mimic the good behavior in us too. Today, I caught my kids playing together in the other room, and I kept hearing my 4 year old say, “Sweetheart, what do you need?” or “Sweetie, I’ll be right here if you need me.” That made me feel like she must be hearing positive things from Mom as well.

As Mothers, we can’t possibly be perfect. Raising kids is hard. Whether you have one or ten, it can be stressful, and crazy at times. But, we have to realize that they do hear, and internalize everything we say. They are always watching. Kind of scary huh? So, it is baffling to me that you see parents that obviously don’t understand the impact of what they say on their kids. Or maybe you see a parent dropping a kid off at school with a vulgar t-shirt. They must know their child can read, right? Parents are the ultimate role model. We worry so much about what a TV star, or musician might be doing to influence our kids, and sometimes we forget to look where it is most important. Right in our own homes.

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About Meredith

Meredith is a native Texan who is currently living in Salt Lake City, UT. She graduated from the University of Utah in 2002 with a B.A. degree in Psychology and a minor in Human Development and Family Studies. She has been married for almost 10 years and has three beautiful children who consume most of her time. However, she started blogging in 2007 and has fallen in love with the idea of becoming a writer. She started scrapbooking over 10 years ago, and has become obsessed with that as well. She also dreams of the day when someone will pay her to scrapbook for them! When she is not scrapbooking, or blogging, she loves to people watch, and analyze what makes people tick. Meredith is proud to be a Mormon, and even served a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints where she fell in love with the Latin culture and learned to speak Spanish. Visit Meredith on her personal blog at www.fakingpictureperfect.wordpress.com