In a previous post, I discussed the benefits of gifting newlyweds with cold, hard cash. Regardless of one’s financial status, geography, age, gender or creed, you really can’t go wrong giving money as a wedding gift. However, there are some ways that are better than others to present your cash gift.
For example, unless you are very close to the couple and are known for being a prankster, it is not recommended to place a wad of cash in a gigantic box filled with tissue paper. While it may be funny watching the recipient tear through a mound of tissue looking for a gift, it might not be in good taste if that individual doesn’t share your same sense of humor. A more appropriate means to present money as a wedding gift is to enclose it in a pretty card with a personal note wishing the newlyweds well in their future life as husband and wife. Remember: The congratulatory note doesn’t have to be long if it is heartfelt.
Another option is to get really creative by folding the bills into origami flowers or a decorative puzzle. Depending on the couple’s heritage, you could also design a dollar bill lei or fan for the newlyweds. Also, consider that some wedding guests will purchase a very inexpensive item off the couple’s gift registry, and then include cash to supplement the item.
Finally, if you are part of the bridal party and you and your fellow bridesmaids or groomsmen must travel a long distance to the wedding you may opt to give less cash because of the other expenses you have incurred to participate in the celebration. In this case, you may prefer to pool your money and give a larger lump sum of cash inside of a single card signed by the entire group.