No one is perfect. We are all humans and each of us has our faults. Through love we look over and accept our mate’s faults and weaknesses. Relationships and marriages go bad when partners cannot get past the annoying and irritating things that their mates do.
However, this is not to say that we must stay completely blind to our mate’s downfalls. I feel that it perfectly okay to let your mate get under your skin every now and then. In fact most mates have one particular thing that completely drives the other crazy. By crazy I am not meaning that wonderful feeling that we go wild over. I mean the type of crazy as in “nuts” and “insane”.
While it is okay to acknowledge the behavior it is not okay to dwell in it or to let it come between the two of you and corrupt your relationship.
The types of things that I am talking about are the little things that your mate likely does without even acknowledging that he or she does them. They are things that you can comment on and jokingly laugh about.
So what is it that your mate does that drives you completely crazy as in terms of insanity?
Is it the way that he chews his food or the way the he leaves his clothes around the house?
Is it the way that she has to having everything in order or the way that she has nothing in order?
When it comes to driving on another carzy at times, both spouses can be guilty!
These are not issues that we hold against one another or even get mad about. However, they are the quirks that we love in each other.
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