Did your teen start dating during the COVID-19 pandemic? The Washington Post has information that parents should know about teen romance in the age of COVID-19.
Parents might be more aware of signs that their teen has started dating. It is easier to notice when everyone is working from home or virtually learning. This knowledge may make parents uncomfortable, but it also provides opportunity for parents and teens to have important discussions.
The Washington Post reported that schools may or may not be providing school-based sexual education during the pandemic. Schools that have on-campus health centers, which may provide birth control and related reproductive information and services, may be inaccessible.
Parents need to fill in those gaps. Take the time to have conversations with you teen about sexuality. Do they understand what causes pregnancy and how to prevent it? Are they aware of the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs)? Parents also need to talk about the difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy (or abusive) one.
Parents should take their teen to a doctor for a wellness check. Are their vaccinations up to date? Do they need a COVID-19 test? Your teen can talk to the doctor about birth control options, and be assessed for reproductive health issues such as POTS or endometriosis.
The pandemic creates unique situations for parents of teens that are dating. Your teen might connect with their boyfriend or girlfriend by texting or voice chat. This is good, because it prevents the spread of COVID-19.
Does your teen want to meet with their boyfriend or girlfriend in person? Parents can provide a safe way for them to do that without spreading COVID-19. Allow them to meet outside, in your backyard or front porch. Insist that they keep their masks on and remain socially distanced. The teens may not like these restrictions, but they are important to adhere to.
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