There are things in your life that you can do that makes you feel more attractive and sexy. These things make you like your body more and feel more comfortable in it. Some of these things may be wearing a certain outfit, going to the salon, or dressing up for a night out on the town.
While you may feel that you are at your best, your mate may feel differently.
In an article that I was reading recently, couples were surveyed about when they felt the sexiest. The woman told what made her feel sexy and then the man told when he thought his mate was the sexiest.
Surprisingly the two did not have the same idea in common.
It seems that the women felt sexier when “fixed up” in fancy clothing or sexy lingerie. They liked for their hair to be fixed and their nails to be manicured. They also felt sexy during romantic moments such as those with soft music and candlelight.
The men thought that their women were the sexiest when they were natural and relaxed. Many commented that they liked their mate without make-up and in comfortable lounge clothes. Some commented that carrying out conversations about issues such as politics was even a turn on.
In many cases I think that we have stereotyped this situation to be exactly the opposite. Society has labeled men as being attracted to women in tight clothing and skimpy outfits and women to felt attractive when in a natural or intellectual state of being.
It seems from this survey that women are more attracted to showing curves than men. And men are more into relaxed and natural environments.
I think that what makes you feel sexy and when your mate feels that you are sexy all depends on your lifestyle. Most people feel the sexiest when they are “out of the norm”. If you dress up everyday, your mate may find that you are sexiest in your exercise outfit. However if you wear lounge clothing on most days, it may make you feel sexy to get dressed up.