I had begun my last article by discussing how many women find that their husbands are reluctant to get help for their marriage. Many women are desperate to seek out help and try to save their marriage. However they have no clue where to begin with getting their husbands to go.
I had started a process that is suggested by Dr. Patricia Allen is how to get your husband to attend therapy with you. Before carrying out this process you must be very serious about getting help. You must also be at the point that you are ready for a divorce is help is not sought out. However if you are this breaking point, this process may be just what you need to discover your husband’s true feelings.
I had left off with paragraph four of the letter that you are to write. In this paragraph you asked him to call and set up an appointment to see a marriage counselor.
In paragraph five, you explain to your husband that if the two of you do not seek outside help you are contacting a lawyer and beginning the process for a divorce.
At the bottom of the letter give a specific time in which you will be contacting your husband on Saturday and Sunday to check on things and let him know that you are okay.
You should then plan a trip for the weekend. Plan to leave Friday afternoon and not return until Sunday afternoon. Plan to visit a family member or stay with some friends. Take the children with you or leave them with a sitter.
Leave the letter where it can be found and leave without him knowing what you are doing.
When you call him on Saturday he may be showing one of two emotions. Your husband may be very angry that you left and did not tell him or he may be very sad and upset that you are gone.
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