One of the things that can be a problem when you are first married is combining different tastes in a household. Apparently others have recognized this can present a problem as they are intending making a show about it. As a person who abhors reality TV, I could think of nothing worse than watching it but I’m sure others won’t agree and will watch. But what can you do if you don’t like some of the stuff your loved ones brings with them?
A lot depends on how important the items are to them and how attached they are to them. If they have sentimental meaning and memories or are family treasures, then suggesting they throw them out or get rid of them is never going to be an option. Trying to get them to part with such an item will only cause resentment and problems in your relationship.
If you have problems with some of their stuff you might try explaining exactly what it is about that object turns you off. But remember if this is something they really love, they may be at a loss to understand or want to hear what you are saying. If they have an office or study you may suggest they keep the offending object in there.
Another alternative may be that they keep it in the bedroom where only the two of you will see it and other people won’t. But of you really hate the item or items, the bedroom may not be a good option as you will see it every night and morning. This could create problems in the bedroom which you don’t want.
However if you’ve looked at these alternatives but your partner wants the object or objects on display, then you are going to have decide which is more important – the aesthetic look of your home or your loved one’s feelings? I know which I’d choose. After all, in the end they’re only things.
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