Being a mom and a homeschooler can be a tricky balance at times. Each role has a full day. One problem? We live one day at a time, not two. However, through careful planning, a bit of letting go, and a sense of humor, you manage. Yet, despite best efforts, there are days that boil down to crazy. The washing machine breaks, the dog gets in the garbage, you have finger paint on the carpet, your kids are arguing, you have a kid crying over math, and you have company coming in a few hours. Can Calgon take it away?
I am the kind of person that needs a break. Just time to sit and have a quiet cup of coffee. It does not have to be a long break or everyday but a bit of time to regroup. I found that when the kids gave up naps I missed that hour to get some writing done, read, do a devotion, work out, or even paint my nails. Just a bit of time to myself. I love homeschooling but even teachers get a teacher’s lounge. It is normal and does not mean you are ungrateful or not cut out for homeschooling. Much of what moms do is give. If you are worn with nothing left to give then you are not doing anyone a favor.
So, to replace nap time, I began having a quiet time. The kids still went to their bedrooms and were not allowed to play together. They were allowed to read, write, color, or play quietly with blocks or Legos. There is no noise, no TV, no video games, and no radio. They each had a chance to be on their own and get a break. I was able to get my own break. I would take the time to do the simple things I missed when the kids took a nap. It benefitted all of us and improved all of our attitudes.
What do you do to prevent burn out?