logo

The Global Domain Name (url) Families.com is currently available for acquisition. Please contact by phone at 805-627-1955 or Email for Details

Who is Normal?

Well back to the family drama. My husband is in the hospital and soon they will be removing a kidney that died from his diabetes. Now he got the diabetes from his mom she is a diabetic and he developed as a teenager. When my husband got cancer I heard that he got it because I asked him to get a vasectomy. So hubby’s cancer is my fault? Would that kidney being removed at the ripe old age of 39 her fault?

No don’t worry I am not going to tell them that because the vasectomy did not cause cancer and even if it did I would not say that to anyone whether they had mistreated me before or not. So about a week ago I sent a text to my brother in law and sister in law telling them that the surprise party I was going to throw for my hubby was cancelled because of his kidney problems. Would it shock you to know my brother in law still has not called him? How about the fact that he knows his brother has been admitted to the hospital and still no call?

No I am not a perfect sister but I know that when I find out my sister is in the hospital I pick up the phone and call, I visit, I act like a sister should act. Now my sister in law did come by the hospital for a quick little visit tonight and brought him a snack basket. Here is the kicker unless he is in the hospital no one calls and no one visits. I just do not get it. I am the one who is backwards? You know what I am so crazy I actually call and visit my sister and her family when they are not sick! Can you believe it?

So let’s hear it am I the one who is off? Be honest I can take it.

This entry was posted in Family Issues by Tammy Woolard. Bookmark the permalink.

About Tammy Woolard

My name is Tammy and I am 40 year old mother of 3 wonderful children who came to us through domestic adoption. Although we did not have any fertility issues we chose adoption because there are so many kids that did not ask to be born but truly want a family to love. We did research on adoption choices and decided on domestic adoption through CPS. You would be surprised the differences between each agency. The adoption process is nothing like you see in the movies. I am also a 5 year breast cancer survivor. When I was diagnosed my kids were 3, 5 and 7 I did so much research I may have driven my Dr. a little crazy but that is ok it is my body not his.