I like and enjoy country music. I have always been a Jennifer Nettles fan. I really like the tone, music, and voice sound of one of her newer songs, Stay. The first time that I heard the song, I liked it. However, the more that I listened to the words, the less I like what it said.
For those of you who do not know the song that I am referring to, it is about a lady who is involved with a married man. She is upset because he keeps having to leave her to go back to his wife.
I am sure that the song is very meaningful and touching for those who are in a similar situation. However for those women of us who are married, it is not so touching.
I can understand the hurt and hardship from having to be away from your mate. Yet I do not feel sorry for women who date married men. I understand that some women get involved in relationships without knowing that the man is married. It would have to be very hard to find out that a man you love is married. However, you are worth all of him. One should not be asked to share their partner.
If you willingly get involved with a married man, then you should expect to get less than all of his attention and time. You should also expect to be kept a secret. In my opinion if a man cheats on his wife he likely does not plan on leaving her. If he met someone else that he truly loves, he would tell his wife and leave her for the other person. If he is cheating, then he is scared of breaking it off with his wife. He is hiding his feelings from her.
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