The question of socialization as it relates to homeschoolers never seems to die down. I believe this question has been asked and answered to the naysayers multiple times. However, well intentioned parents are concerned with this aspect when making the decision to homeschool. We live in a society where homeschooling is the exception and not the rule. Parents considering homeschooling have questions about all areas of homeschooling which include socialization. Public and private schools have after school programs, clubs, sports and outlets for the children to mingle and interface with other students and teachers. It only stands to reason that a parent would question the level of socialization if they remove their child from that atmosphere.
Let me begin by alleviating socialization fears by saying I believe homeschooled children are often better socialized and have the potential for true socialization then school children. Homeschooled children are faced with the reality of life changes in a more intimate way than a school child. A homeschooled child must learn to adapt to a changing environment as the family experiences loss, financial crisis, joy, addition of a new family member, siblings of different age ranges, and more. The skill of socializing outside of your age range is valuable and learned early on with a homeschooled child. Often teens who are homeschooled find it easier to spend time with parents, grandparents and young siblings. Siblings learn to form close relationships due to the sheer amount of time they spend together. Parents know their children inside and out which helps in relating to them on multiple levels. While, a school child is certainly not hampered from learning social lessons, it is important to note that neither are homeschooled children. Homeschooled children possess the social graces and ability to communicate at least on the same level of school children.
The next thing a concerned parent asks is how a child learns to socialize outside of his home. Here is a list of many activities and ways to keep your child socially active.
Play sports: Talk to your school district since most schools will allow homeschoolers to participate in school sports. You can also try the YMCA or local clubs.
Community Service: Get yourself and your child involved in a local charity.
Church: If you are a church member, do not discount the social opportunities at your church. If you’re church as outreach programs, get your child involved. My children learned how to socialize with all groups of people through church.
Summer Camps: Check your local paper for summer day camps available to children in your area.
Co-ops: Join a homeschooling co-op in your area. If you cannot find one, then start one!
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