It is important to teach to the young men of the church, the importance of accepting responsibility, as they grow older. This should include serving a mission, obtaining a higher education, and providing for a family. The role of a Priesthood holder in the home is that of leader and provider. It is important to teach the young men how to best fulfill these roles.
The best way to do this is through example. In many homes the sons will simply be able to follow the examples of their fathers as they grow up. However, not every family in the church will have a father who is active in the church. Many boys will grow up without knowing their fathers. This is when the ward family needs to step in and help. Home teachers, quorum advisers and scout leaders can all play a role in being an example to the young men who need it.
Another important thing is to stress the importance of doing well in school, and continuing on in higher education. Not everyone is going to be happy and successful at college, but there are many technical schools, which will provide training that can increase the amount of money that you earn. It is important that you encourage your son to explore an area that interests him, that can still help him to provide for his family. President Hinckley stressed the need for boys to go on to college in his talk “Rise Up, O Men of God.”
Another important goal is to build your son’s self esteem. It is important to praise his best efforts, and help him to know when he has done his best. It is also important for him to learn how to overcome his weaknesses. You can set goals as a family, and this habit will continue with him over the years. As you love and respect your son, he will learn to love and respect others. This ability will help him as he begins a family of his own.
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