As a Young Women’s leader it is important to remember the influence that you have on the girls. The girls look up to and admire their leaders. The leaders are someone else that they can turn to with questions when they do not feel comfortable going to their parents. The example that you set can make a big difference in how the girls act and feel about themselves. While it is important to develop friendships with the girls, it is important to remember that you are the leader. Here are five things that you should focus on when you are a Young Women’s leader.
1) You should dress appropriately. As adults in the church we should be following the guidelines set forth in the For the Strength of Youth manual. This means that you wear modest attire to all of the activities. It also means taking care to look your best each Sunday. If you have a well kept appearance it encourages the girls to do the same.
2) Your attitude can make a big difference when it comes to reaching the girls. It is important to come to the activities with a positive attitude and to participate fully when you do come. The girls notice when their leaders do not want to be there, and it affects them negatively. This should include having a positive attitude about keeping the commandments and living the gospel as well.
3) You should look for the best in each girl, and refrain from making any negative comments about any of the girls. There is nothing more discouraging than for those comments to find their way back to the parents or the girl. It also makes those around you or other young women feel just as uncomfortable.
4) Although it may seem obvious it is important to attend your meetings regularly. This makes a big difference to the girls, because they know that you want to be there. It sets an example to them about the importance of church activity and fulfilling their callings.
5) You should take the opportunity to bear your testimony whenever it is appropriate. The quiet spiritual moments can help girls who are struggling with their testimonies or their self-esteem. Your quiet testimony may give them the strength they need to deal with difficult situations.
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