Have you thought about how many times a day you use words? I have a two-year-old and I am constantly encouraging him to use his words, instead of screaming or acting out. Language is wonderful, because it allows us to express ourselves. We can convey what has happened and share our thoughts and feelings. They way you use your words really reflects the type of person that you are.
Have you considered the words that you use to discuss things? Do you consider yourself someone who is completely free of gossip? Are you careful in sharing opinions that may cause others pain? Do you watch the words that you use in front of your children? We have been counseled to watch the words that we use and say.
The world will look at the words that you use to decide what type of person you are. It is careful to choose what we say and how we say it carefully. It is also important to consider the damage that we can do to others because of poor word choices, or words used in anger. The things that people say stick with you longer than many other things.
As you raise your children, you will find that the words and tone of voice that they use will often reflect your own. The most important place to watch the way you use your words is in your own family. Your children learn about the gospel from you. Your children first learn about love from you. They will learn how to treat and speak to others from you.
If you find that you have a hard time controlling your words, or tone of voice when angry, you should pray for help. The Lord will help you to control your temper and your words so that you do not strike out in anger at your children. You can learn to use your words to lift up those around you as well.
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